My present partner and I also have already been together for over three years (we have split up twice but it is been 2 years since we returned together.) We started initially to think I happened to be poly her, and communicated that before I met. She was “okay” it was not really ok. with us stepping into an open relationship (but) I hurt her a great deal in the act whenever I had been experimenting and looking for just just what worked it definitely wasn’t ENM at all for me. I’m maybe maybe not happy with it.
That she will never be comfortable with the idea of opening up since we got back together for the second time, I’ve been practising mono, and I know for sure. Read more